A

man is often

secretly oppressed by

the role he has to

play—by always having to

be responsible, in control, and

rational. The Siren is the ultimate

male fantasy figure because

she offers a total release from the

limitations of his life. In her presence,

which is always heightened and

sexually charged, the male feels

transported to a world of pure pleasure.

She is dangerous, and in pursuing

her energetically the man can lose

control over himself something he

yearns to do. The Siren is a mirage;

she lures men by cultivating a particular

appearance and manner.

In a world where women are

often too timid to project such

an image, learn to take

control of the male libido

by embodying

his fantasy.